How do you deal with funeral costs and what precautions can you take ?
Q. How do you deal with funeral costs and what precautions can you take ? I live in Tampa Florida My father is toward the end of his life. He maybe has a year left . What is the average cost of a funeral ? What things can I do now to make sure the funeral cost is covered ? Is there a option for low income families? Both my wife and I are unemployed right now. Please let me know what precautions I can take to make sure its covered ?
Asked by firechief - Thu May 13 12:13:05 2010 - - 5 Answers - 0 Comments

A. If he was a veteran then the military will help. You could have a funeral at your house for free. Low income families should consider cremation. Its been 7 years but my dads cremation cost about $400. Again the military will supply an urn.
Answered by Will - Fri May 14 08:46:31 2010

Do you think attending unknown funerals is good research for writing a funeral scene?
Q. I am writing a funeral scene for my soon to be finished book. I am looking for funny incidents that happen at funerals. It was suggested that I attend funerals of people I don't know to do my research. Do you think this is a good idea? Do you know of anything funny that happen at a funeral you attended or read about in a book? There is a funny funeral scene in Tina McElroy's "Ugly Ways", Have you read it?
Asked by AKAO4D - Thu Feb 26 18:32:48 2009 - - 8 Answers - 0 Comments

A. I think it's excellent research and not disrespectful, if you're not writing anything disrespectful about the actual people who died, by name. It's the only way. Plus, the experience will help you convey the feelings and bring more depth to the scene that you probably would otherwise not be able to convey perfectly.
Answered by Miriam-Adi - Thu Feb 26 18:41:59 2009

Who invented the funeral home & who came up with the things that happens to the body after death?
Q. Cremating of a person or embalming them for an open casket or closed casket funeral. Where did all of the things and who came up with the idea of all of the things that will go on in a funeral home.
Asked by Mr.Funeral - Wed Jul 14 17:33:45 2010 - - 1 Answers - 0 Comments

A. Thousands of years of ritual and practice that helped the survivors deal with the loss.
Answered by Christof Probst - Wed Jul 14 17:40:58 2010

Do you have a funeral casserole in your freezer?
Q. How often do you change it? Assuming there are no funerals in that time, to take it to. What is your best funeral casserole receipe? This is the South people, and Yes people die, and when that happens, you take the casserole out of the freezer and take it to the wake. And something new is a video, of the dead persons life, with pictures and favorite music, that we show at the wake. People are going to die regardless or not, I put a casserole in my freezer. Would you wait until someone is hurt, before buying a first aid kit.
Asked by Anne2 - Sun Sep 16 11:31:38 2007 - - 5 Answers - 0 Comments

A. This one actually has the name funeral in it! Funeral Potatoes (serves 16) 1 24-ounce bag frozen shredded (not diced!) hash brown potatoes, thawed 2 cans cream of chicken soup 2 cups sour cream* 1 cup grated cheddar* one-half cup plus 2 T. melted butter* one-third cup chopped onion 2 cups crushed cornflakes salt to taste Combine 2 T. melted butter and cornflakes. Set aside. In a large mixing bowl, combine remaining ingredients. Blend well. Pour potato mixture in a large oblong pan. Sprinkle crushed cornflake mixture on top and bake at 350 degrees for 30 minutes. Serve hot. Do not use low-fat versions of these ingredients. Low-fat sour cream and cheddar will not melt, and margarine has water in it.
Answered by Gma Joan - Sun Sep 16 12:46:24 2007

How do I describe funeral service apprentice on my resume for a job at other funeral homes?
Q. I'm currently a funeral service apprentice but I need to include it in my resume but having difficulty wording it in my resume. Can someone please help me.
Asked by lilliejack - Sat Jan 5 19:01:22 2008 - - 2 Answers - 1 Comments

A. u jus gotta delve out and describe it
Answered by akfortyseven - Sun Jan 6 15:09:45 2008

How do funeral homes market their services?
Q. I'm a writer and I'd like to target funeral homes for my writing services, but I'm unclear as to their marketing efforts. I know that a funeral home is often associated with a particular cemetery, and receives referrals from people who've purchased plots in that cemetery. I also know that funeral homes do a great deal of Yellow Pages advertising, and likely have Web sites. Are there any other types of marketing communications they do? Do they send out flyers or direct mail? Thanks very much.
Asked by canyoubelievethisworld - Mon Mar 2 12:39:35 2009 - - 3 Answers - 0 Comments

A. Commercials Church Bulletins Yellow pages Newspapers Internet
Answered by Varvaro - Mon Mar 2 14:53:14 2009

What is the protocol for a Buddhist funeral?
Q. My dad's wife's brother passed away unexpectedly and I want to send flowers or something but am not sure what the Buddhist tradition is for paying respects. If I can do something to help the family with arrangements that don;t have to do with funeral arrangements, like buying supplies they may need to take to the funeral home or send the type of flowers normally at a Buddhist funeral, or maybe even donate money to the temple on the decease's behalf. But I don't want to do anything to offend anyone either. Any suggestions?
Asked by AnnMar - Wed Jul 22 19:24:19 2009 - - 3 Answers - 0 Comments

A. first you should ask what type of Buddhist they are. Flowers would be fine. The White Lotus would be cool.
Answered by Peace - Wed Jul 22 19:41:45 2009

How do funeral home workers deal with the suffering and sadness they see day after day?
Q. I live near several funeral homes, and often see the workers outside, shoveling in their formal attire, or directing cars. My heart sinks whenever I drive by and there is a service. I have always tried to imagine what it must be like to be inside one of these people, but cannot. Does anyone have any insight?
Asked by alyandbud - Sun Jan 11 09:39:37 2009 - - 5 Answers - 0 Comments

A. I am a funeral director and for most directors I know find it very hard and often times we cry along with the families. I live in a small community and I know most of the families in our community. So every time we get a call my stomach drops to hear the name. However, I feel that my job is needed and I find it very rewarding to help our families get through the rough period in their lifes. We also have the unique ability to get to know nearly all of the community and be close to them. Hope this helps! God Bless!
Answered by JEN - Tue Jan 13 21:15:52 2009

Who pays for the funeral cost for my parents when pass?
Q. I don't have power of attorney my daughter does. I was told (from several sources) that the person who makes the funeral arrangments is responsible for payment.
Asked by W W - Tue Sep 1 11:13:56 2009 - - 4 Answers - 0 Comments

A. When you sign a contract with a funeral home, you are responsible for payment. Since your Daughter has the POA, she should be taking care of the arrangements. If she doesn't, it will come out of the Estate.
Answered by sensible_man - Tue Sep 1 12:13:01 2009

What is the appropriate attire for ladies for a funeral visitation?
Q. I know you wear black to the funeral service, but what should you wear for the visitation at the funeral home (this is the night before the funeral). I only have one outfit to wear and don't want to wear it both days. If it matters, the deceased was the son of a friend. Thanks for all the great responses. Y'all have been just what I needed when I needed it. I don't know how to pick a "best" answer so I'll leave it to the voters.
Asked by homeschoolmom - Thu Aug 9 13:16:15 2007 - - 12 Answers - 0 Comments

A. Usually the attire is dark colors, blacks, browns, dark blues, and greys, some whites. It is usually nice for ladies to wear skirts or dresses, don't wear to many accsesories, and don't wear bright makeup, wear neutrals.
Answered by Canard - Thu Aug 9 13:20:09 2007

How do I become a coroner or funeral director in Texas?
Q. I'm leaning toward becoming a coroner/funeral director as my career path. How would I go about this in Texas? Also, what is the hierarchy in terms of jobs attributing to a mortuary? I know the funeral director deals with the grieving families themselves, but what other jobs are there?
Asked by jeckrow@sbcglobal.net - Wed Jul 23 14:41:46 2008 - - 2 Answers - 0 Comments

A. A coroner and a funeral director are two completely different jobs. A coroner is a paid position, either elected or appointed, depending on the state. A coroner responds to death calls and determines the cause of death or orders an autopsy if necessary. A funeral director works at a funeral home, makes funeral arrangements and embalms bodies. A mortician and a funeral director are the same thing.
Answered by Reagan - Wed Jul 23 17:34:46 2008

What to expect at funeral and should we bring flowers?
Q. I am taking my 3 year old son to his grandma's funeral tomorrow (my ex's mom). She has already been cremated with out him seeing her. What can I expect so I am be ready to explain this to him since he cant see her. And since she is in an urn do we bring flowers, if so what do I do with them, where do they go?
Asked by Emily - Thu Aug 28 00:04:43 2008 - - 7 Answers - 0 Comments

A. ~~If you are going to just funeral services you really don't need to bring flowers. it's better to send to the immediate survivors. For your son, at three years old he can't comprehend much of this. I would explain to him that Grandma's time has come to join god (or whatever you are comfortable with), and you will be going to services to celebrate her life while she was here on earth. Tell him to listen carefully and he will learn nice things he may not know about Grandma's history. So sorry for your loss.~~
Answered by debijs - Thu Aug 28 00:17:48 2008

How long does an average funeral last?
Q. This may sound a bit disrespectful to the dead, but this funeral is not for anyone of importance. (If you think of a better way to say that please tell me). If it's just a funeral for a family member how long will I be at this funeral when I arrive at 10am?
Asked by Meeeeow - Fri Aug 28 23:51:13 2009 - - 8 Answers - 0 Comments

A. This family member just died. You will never see this person again, and is your last chance to pay final respects. If your focus is on how long it lasts,then dont even show up.
Answered by THEKID - Fri Aug 28 23:55:31 2009

Is it distasteful to leave funeral home fliers in the waiting room of the Intensive Care Unit ?
Q. My boyfriend is a funeral director and I made up fliers on the school copier to help drum up business. I'v been placing them all over town, but the hospital seemed to be the best spot. I haven't told my boyfriend about this, but a classmate saw the flier and said it was distasteful.
Asked by Louise Z - Sun Dec 21 23:44:10 2008 - - 14 Answers - 0 Comments

A. Think of it this way... people in the ICU are fighting to live... not waiting to die. That being said, every hospital has grief counselors and social services staff for their patients and patients families. These staff members are dispatched to help the families of those dying, and are armed with all sorts of flyers and information - usually relating to support groups and public services. Information about the funeral home a burial services can only help these hospital staff members serve the families - should the question arise - which often does. DO NOT leave fliers in the waiting area - that is the wrong way to do this. Further, speak with the same type of staff members at a hospice. Hospice patients are there to die comfortably, and… [cont.]
Answered by amy1272hou - Mon Dec 22 00:38:09 2008

What should I say during a funeral service to the family?
Q. This is the first time for me to attend a funeral. I want to say something to the family to express my condolence. Need help on the exact words that i should say to the family. Thanks.
Asked by Jean - Fri Sep 11 22:48:50 2009 - - 4 Answers - 0 Comments

A. Ive only been to 1 funeral in my entire life Well im only 17 but still. You dont need to go out of your way to "console" them Remember no matter what you say, you cant make them forget the reason they're gathered that day, you can't bring the family member back. Something that expresses you care for them but still keep it brief. I'd say something along the lines of "I'm extremely sorry for your loss Ms/Mr__. I didn't know __ very well but the few times we spoke ___ really helped me during hard times. ___ really helped me see things clearly. i have no doubt ___ will be missed but never forgotten." Yaaah, ahaha something like that? :'(
Answered by St llar - Fri Sep 11 23:01:46 2009

What can i wear to a funeral during the summer?
Q. This week i will be attending a funeral & im stuck on whats the appropriate thing to wear. Its going to be in compton c.a so the weather is going to be really hot. I dont wanna go too dressed up and i also dont wanna go in my casual shorts and a t-shirt. Please help. Thanks.
Asked by Teresa - Tue Jul 8 00:52:14 2008 - - 7 Answers - 0 Comments

A. Just remember the rule of thumb when it comes to funerals and fashions...all the eyes will be on the dearly departed, as long as the deceased looks good, it really doesn't matter what you look like. It's not a fashion show.
Answered by zdude_4u - Tue Jul 8 17:15:36 2008

How can I raise money for a funeral in less htan 4 days?
Q. My grandmother passed away on September 11 this past friday from cancer. We need help raising money for her funeral. It is about $5,500 and we need the money now. Are there any ideas on how to make money in less than 4 days?
Asked by kAREN.BBy - Sun Sep 13 02:15:15 2009 - - 4 Answers - 0 Comments

A. Talk with the funeral director, or possibly the manager. If you have some money to put down, then they should be able to help you. $5500 seems like a lot of money for a funeral. Could you also be adding in the cemetery costa as well? These are two separate bills. If you can work it out, the mortuary is usually able to work payment options out better than the cemetery. If your grandma belonged to a church, some times the pastor has a fund that can be used to help members of the church. This could either be an out right gift, or a loan. Either way when you are able you should repay the church, that way there is money available to help the next family. If things are really tight you may have to "cut back" on some of the expenses. Maybe a… [cont.]
Answered by imdigger2000 - Sun Sep 13 03:25:34 2009

If funeral costs come out of the estate, how do they stay in business?
Q. My father-in-law passed away and his funeral cost was $8,000+ From what I understand, the funeral costs come from the estate, but in his case, he doesn't have enough money to cover it. Is this common? How would funeral homes stay in business? What is the advantage to pre-planning/paying if no one except the estate is responsible for the bill?
Asked by Jackie S - Sat Mar 7 10:19:40 2009 - - 1 Answers - 0 Comments

A. I was under the impression that if nobody can pay for a funeral, then the funeral director hands the body over to the state and the government takes care of it.
Answered by Logic316 - Sat Mar 7 10:29:50 2009

What job could I have at a funeral home at fifteen?
Q. I am turning fifteen soon, and need to start worrying about getting a job. I would like to work at a funeral home, and was wondering what jobs I could possibly have at fifteen?
Asked by AdorKable - Mon Oct 12 19:32:00 2009 - - 2 Answers - 0 Comments

A. Cleaning, filing, carrying flowers and things like that, inventory (they do have some stock), answering phones, general office tasks. Maybe greeting people who come to view their loved one.
Answered by tutor - Mon Oct 12 19:43:31 2009

How soon is a viewing and a funeral usually held after the date of death?
Q. My grandpa died today, the viewing is tomorrow, and the funeral is the day after tomorrow. I thought this was kind of quick, no?
Asked by * *anna* * - Tue Nov 25 00:59:16 2008 - - 10 Answers - 0 Comments

A. Hi- My Sympathies regarding your Grandpa's death. It is never easy to lose a loved one. Had your grandpa been ill for a while? Was this an expected death? Working in the Medical Field, I have seen MANY situations- If he had been expected to pass on, I can see where maybe the Funeral is held so soon. it is soon- it definetly is soon! For this, I am sorry. Sometimes relatives who live out of State that have been taking care of or at the bedside of the loved one have expected this set of circumstances, this will be done this way. Every individual case is different... I would advice that you share your feelings with somebody close to you. I know this may sound strange to you right now, but, writing a poem, a tribute, or some memories down is… [cont.]
Answered by Ridin The Storm Out - Tue Nov 25 01:36:59 2008

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